Our Hopes for 2013…

So we have now entered a new year, and neither of us are particularly into making resolutions. However, we have been discussing what we hope happens in the next 12 months.

Well obviously we want are already strong relationship to keep growing and flourishing. As well as this we want  to become pregnant (and have a child depending when she falls pregnant). But if this happens it will mean lots more changes to our lives. We were planning on moving anyway, as my current commute to work is approximately an hour, and using stupid amounts of fuel, so moving near is really a no brainer. But also if there is a little one on the way, then we are going to need a bigger house, as our small one bedroom place is just about big enough for us and the pets, but would be too cramped with a baby as well.

So ultimately we are looking to move as well as getting pregnant. There is one other major change that we have recently realised we will have to do when she gets pregnant, and that is to change job (again)! I only started my current job in July, and love most aspects of it. However, it is a shift job, which currently isn’t a problem, as because my partner is currently unemployed, we still get to see large amounts of each other, which we wouldn’t be able to cope without. However, this would change when she gets a job. But more relevant to this post, if I was still working shift patterns, I feel that I would miss out on so much of both the pregnancy and the growing up of the child. Yes, working a 9-5 means that I would miss the school run and those things, but at least I would be around for bed time and getting them up for school.

So this could be a massive year, but as with this whole blog, it is all dependent on us getting pregnant, if that is even possible, as we are yet to get to the point where we can be tested for our fertility and chances of getting pregnant.

So fingers crossed that all goes to plan… We will let you know.

Thanks for reading and we wish you all a happy new year (and hope you had a good christmas)

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